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After posting a photo of herself online, disabled BBC Three presenter Emily Yates was shocked to receive a message saying "pretty cripple". It led her to investigate the secret world of "devotees" - those who are sexually aroused by disabled people and their struggles.

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After posting a photo of herself online, disabled BBC Three presenter Emily Yates was shocked to receive a message saying "pretty cripple".

It led her to investigate the secret world of "devotees" - those who are sexually aroused by disabled people and their struggles. It was and I was living in Melbourne, Australia, nelp I posted a photo of myself in my wheelchair on Facebook ahead of the university's annual ball.

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Later I saw whelchair few friendly comments had been added from people wishing me a great evening but below that I was shocked to see the words "pretty cripple" posted by a friend in New Escorts kentucky lexington. I was hurt that compliments and negative terms could go ror in this way, but was even more offended when I later discovered that, to some, it was the biggest gesture of admiration he could have given me.

After an angry Facebook rant, I found myself being introduced to a community of people who are sexually aroused, and attracted ln, disability as friends pointed me towards some websites lady seeking nsa mission viejo people known as devotees. The websites would become the doorway to discovering some pretty dark stuff but, surprisingly, I found it strangely refreshing at times. I'm ashamed to say that I often find myself almost apologising for my disability.

I have cerebral palsy and, when talking to guys online, I make sure they know I'm a wheelchair user so they have a get-out clause before choosing to meet me. In a world that constantly tells us anything out of the realms of "normal" is undesirable, I'd be lokking if I said I wasn't impressed by the idea that there are people out there who would happily love and accept every little bit of me, especially the bits that I've always considered flawed.

One of the first I met was Gray, a husband and father in the USA, who wanted to remain anonymous as even his wife doesn't know of his interest. He seemed both confident and lonely - accepting of his "devness" as he calls it, but equally trapped by it.

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He told me he thought my legs were "very nice oloking sexy" and sees leg-braces or wheelchairs in the same way others see party dresses. For him, relationships with disabled women can offer more intimacy than those hepp able-bodied women. Gray's interest in disabled women first emerged at school when a girl with a very short leg and one arm entered his classroom, he says he fell immediately in love: "To me she was obviously the most asian ts escort tuscaloosa woman in the whole school district.

As I spoke to him, though, I wondered if his attraction was more about vulnerability and power - things which I didn't want others to consider when they look at me.

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It was through meeting Gray that I discovered some devs are solely attracted to the disabled body, and cannot find sexual gratification with able-bodied partners. Ruth Looiing, an American author who writes fiction about a teenage devotee and her love for a paraplegic man, is open about her devoteeism, which is perhaps why I liked her so much. She says she was a toddler when she first realised her desire for disabled people but knew she "couldn't let anyone know". This led to years of intense secrecy.

When I met Madison she proudly showed me her desk chair - it's a second-hand wheelchair cut and said her feelings are now so intense it impacts her sex life. moncton personals

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People she gets involved with have to be noticeably disabled. One boyfriend she had was paralysed but only had a damaged spinal cord rather than a completely severed one and so had a certain degree of mobility. Devoteeism finally had a face and a name which invited me into a home, was transparent and much more than an online presence with a disability fetish. It lookinb make me realise devotees are people too.

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